Interview with an Emo

One only has to take a quick walk through Canberra's city centre to see the prominence of the Emo subculture. People assume a lot about it and the people who associate themselves with it. But what does a member of this group have to say? I asked my friend some questions about subculture and individualism so to clear up any misguided assumptions.
Tell me a little about yourself... I'm 23, studying fine arts at university, I work part time and I'm an Emo.
What do you think defines an individual? Someone who isn't afraid of standing out or expressing their personal beliefs. I'm an individual.
So you think you express a certain sense of individualism? Well yeah. I'm not like every other preppy kid or public servant here in Canberra, am I? You look at the kids walking through Civic and they're all the same. They wear the same shoes, the same shirts and listen to the same music; they think they're so cool because they're just like everyone else. I don't relate to that sheep-like mentality at all.
How did you get involved in the Emo culture? It was the music. I really connected to the Indie Rock/ Emo genre when I was in high school. I found a group of people at my school that were into it too and I guess we just clicked over it. Everyone at high school and college thought we were so weird, I guess because we didn't dress or behave like them. For the most part we felt alone. It wasn't until we started to go to Melbourne and Sydney to gigs that we realised we weren't alone.
What about it drew you in? It was like the music was speaking to me. The themes were so relevant to my life at the time. And I admired the bands because the weren't afraid of being themselves. As for the people in the culture, it was like finding long lost family. I could relate to them, they didn't think I was some freak with too much to say.
What would you say to people who think that someone in a subculture is no more individual that a person living a 'mainstream' existence? I'd say they're pretty ignorant and obviously live in some sort of bubble.
But you agree that the mainstream image of a subculture often hides what it is to be an individual in that group? Yeah definitely. I've watched this culture change so much during the past few years. It has become so mainstream that the true meaning behind it has been watered down to an unrecognisable state. I feel like I'm an individual because I'm one of the originals. I'm not like one of those 15-year-old brats that sit in Garema Place moping about how hard life is. If you ask those kids about what it is to be Emo, they'd probably tell you a bunch of stories about how cool they think they are because they cut up their bodies and get really wasted. And sure people might confuse me with one of those kids because I wear black, have a fringe and like tight jeans. People are dumb. They take everything on face value alone and don't bother questioning the deeper meaning.
So you agree that you have a bit of a mainstream image going on? Yeah. but only because popular culture stole my image and pimped it out to all the unoriginal kiddies out there. My image is not about looking cool; it's an expression of my personality.
What do you consider your individual place in this subculture to be? Well first of all I'm an edgeways Emo, which means I made an agreement to stay away from drugs and alcohol. I believe in God. I don't self mutilate in the form of cutting and burning, I do however have 9 piercings and 3 tattoos. I love the music, particularly the underground sounds coming from Melbourne at the moment. I wear black because I like it, not because I think it looks cool. I don't sit around moping about the state of the world; I get up and say or do something about it.
Is subculture for life? Hell yes. If it's not then you're in it for the wrong reasons. I have 'Until The Grave' tattooed on my back because that's how I feel about the way I choose to live my life. Subcultures aren't trends, they're lifestyles. Never forget that.